I Quit

Did that grab your attention?

I read a book this week (written about five years ago) that said that we have a NINE SECOND attention span before we succumb to distraction. I bet it’s down to five now.

😂

(Ha ha. Are you still here? 

Fairy Godspider helps you change your story

Then, I read an article that pointed out that WE (you and me, all of us) have the power to create change, especially in our culture in our interactions with each other, with friends and family members, with power and authority, online and professionally, in our businesses and our platforms. We can interrupt the cultural norms we don’t consent to, and we can create new ones. This wasn’t new to me, as it’s been an evolving part of my manifesto for years, but I liked the way the article was worded.)

Have you ever thought of yourself as a culture shaper?

When I was first learning the HeartMath tools (ask me more) I took a year long program called Heart Mastery, which taught me how to apply the basic tools to all the aspects of my life in order to live a more Heart Centered life. In one of those classes, we talked about the power –and the value of– our ATTENTION.

I’m writing this just days before the Super Bowl, so it’s very relevant. Guess how much it costs to run a 30-second ad? I wish I could make you guess a couple times before I just tell you, but:  $5.6 million for a 30-second slot!! Crazy, isn’t it? That’s how much your attention is worth.

50 years of superbowl ad costs

Think of that the next time you’re deciding what to do with it.

It’s true that we place more value on the things we pay for … and WE certainly don’t value our own attention that much, do we? That’s why it’s so easy to get distracted from the Things We Really Want To Do.

So this year, I quit a few things:

  • I quit binging shows on Netflix … and prioritized my “to-do” list instead.
  • I quit my negative self – talk. (Or at least cut it waaaaay back … ) My new mantra is “everything is figuroutable” –thanks Marie*.)
  • I quit isolating myself … and prioritized my friendships and connections instead.
  • I quit ignoring my inner wisdom and depreciating my woo* … and had some major break throughs just this week.

It’s your turn:

What things are you ready to quit this year? What will you do with your time and attention instead? Let me know!

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